comment on multiply

the following is a comment I posted on one of the multiply sites regarding a blog entry of a rather sensitive nature. Surprisingly there are a number of people who took offense on what I said and completely overlook the main sense of the piece. Here it goes:

jonascruz2085 wrote today at 4:24 AM, edited today at 4:28 AM
This is the internet folks shared by billions of people coming from different walks of life and having brought up differently as well and influenced by different surroundings. With this being said each of us here are entitled to our own opinions and feelings about the topic but that doesn't mean that we can abuse that right. This topic has been posted(i think) to pique the interests of its readers and not to lure people out who has done the act of having a mistress or being one to be judged and persecuted by the people who has a different POV. Regardless of how clean our conscience are that still doesn't give us the right to throw hurtful words or judge a person just because of a mistake he/she has committed.

Ladies and gents easy on the comments and accusations towards other people. I know the topic is really sensitive but please do try to think first about the implications of what you're about to say whether it may be good or not. There are a lot who may misunderstood what you meant. To the others, all of your opinions are really meaningful and really understandable, but please no matter what happens let us not throw words that directly disrespect the other people's POV.

To nicefreak, having found out that you're not the only one must have been really tough. I commend you for being able to rise above it and give another crack at the marriage. Nicely done.

For Dean, it's really brave that you did what you did. You came out and spilled a personal part of yourself here. I know you have your reasons. reasons that may actually help us to further know why "mistresses" are what they are. If you are immediately judged and incarcerated by the others, on behalf of them I apologize. Please try to keep an even broader mind and try to understand their reactions as well. Yes it does take 2 to tango both in marriage and having a mistress. With the lack of commitment on the former would sometimes equate on having the latter.

The wife should know her responsibilities not only to her child but also to her husband. The husband should always prioritize his family for it to be a give and take relationship.

To skdeleon, very interesting post. I never thought this would get the feedback it did from the others. Awaiting for your next "very interesting" entree. ^_^

P and C. Patience and Commitment. And at rarity...Love.

Cheers to you all.

Disclaimer: I am not a sympathizer of such nor a con of the topic at hand. all i am here for is to learn from minds that I believe are better than mine and try to understand their own opinions. Neutrality to absorb as much knowledge as I can is my purpose.